[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/slozite-vztahy\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/slozite-vztahy\/","headline":"Slo\u017eit\u00e9 vztahy","name":"Slo\u017eit\u00e9 vztahy","description":"Vztahy jsou ob\u010das komplikovan\u00e9 a rozhodn\u011b to nen\u00ed proch\u00e1zka r\u016f\u017eovou zahradou, jak si mnoz\u00ed mysl\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak. N\u011bkdy je to ve vztaz\u00edch slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e by si v\u016fbec \u010dlov\u011bk mohl myslet. Kdy\u017e si to tak vezmeme, tak kdy\u017e se dva lidi maj\u00ed r\u00e1di a navz\u00e1jem se miluj\u00ed, tak pro sebe jsou schopn\u00ed ud\u011blat cokoliv, tomu v\u011b\u0159te. […]","datePublished":"2023-11-29","dateModified":"2023-11-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"pados.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-kpaukshtite-704748_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-kpaukshtite-704748_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/slozite-vztahy\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":425,"articleBody":"Vztahy jsou ob\u010das komplikovan\u00e9 a rozhodn\u011b to nen\u00ed proch\u00e1zka r\u016f\u017eovou zahradou, jak si mnoz\u00ed mysl\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak. N\u011bkdy je to ve vztaz\u00edch slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e by si v\u016fbec \u010dlov\u011bk mohl myslet. Kdy\u017e si to tak vezmeme, tak kdy\u017e se dva lidi maj\u00ed r\u00e1di a navz\u00e1jem se miluj\u00ed, tak pro sebe jsou schopn\u00ed ud\u011blat cokoliv, tomu v\u011b\u0159te. L\u00e1ska nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 hranice a ti, kte\u0159\u00ed spolu maj\u00ed b\u00fdt, tak spolu z\u016fstanou a v\u0161echno p\u0159ekonaj\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se dva lidi sezn\u00e1m\u00ed, tak je to na za\u010d\u00e1tku kr\u00e1sn\u00e9. Mu\u017e se sna\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt romantick\u00fd, nos\u00ed \u017een\u011b kv\u011btiny, d\u011bl\u00e1 j\u00ed sn\u00eddan\u011b do postele. No jen mi \u0159ekn\u011bte, kter\u00e1 \u017eena by si to nep\u0159\u00e1la? J\u00e1 si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena by za to byla opravdu vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1. Jen\u017ee jde o to, jestli to mu\u017e d\u011bl\u00e1 i po letech sou\u017eit\u00ed. Jestli to nen\u00ed t\u0159eba jenom tak, \u017ee to d\u011bl\u00e1 jenom na za\u010d\u00e1tku a potom u\u017e t\u0159eba ne. \u010clov\u011bk by se m\u011bl soust\u0159edit na to, jestli ho ten druh\u00fd miluje. Mus\u00ed to dokazovat. Alespo\u0148 u m\u011b se teda \u0159\u00edd\u00edm takov\u00fdm heslem, \u017ee svou l\u00e1sku by m\u011bl mu\u017e dokazovat ne slovy, ale \u010diny. To znamen\u00e1 d\u00e1t \u017een\u011b pocit, \u017ee se na n\u011bj m\u016f\u017ee kdykoliv spolehnout, \u017ee je pro n\u011bj ta jedin\u00e1, ten jeho p\u0159\u00edstav a jeho \u00fato\u010di\u0161t\u011b. Tam, kam se \u017eena v\u017edycky m\u016f\u017ee schovat, kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 dobrou n\u00e1ladu a kdy\u017e je j\u00ed smutno a ouvej. Takhle by to m\u011blo fungovat v ka\u017ed\u00e9m vztahu, ale bohu\u017eel to tak nen\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161ina vztah\u016f z dne\u0161n\u00ed doby ztroskot\u00e1. Pro\u010d? M\u00e1lo d\u016fv\u011bry, lidi si nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed navz\u00e1jem, podv\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed se a hned cht\u011bj\u00ed vztah zahodit, m\u00edsto co by se jej alespo\u0148 pokusili slepit. Pom\u011brn\u011b \u010dast\u00fdm t\u00e9matem je nev\u011bra, a to se potom nediv\u00edm, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd podveden\u00fd ukon\u010d\u00ed vztah. Pro m\u011b je nev\u011bra n\u011bco jako velk\u00e1 \u010derven\u00e1 stopka, proto\u017ee kdy\u017e se dva lidi miluj\u00ed, nikdy si tohle neud\u011blaj\u00ed. A pokud tohle jeden z nich ve vztahu ud\u011bl\u00e1 a ani se za to nestyd\u00ed a d\u011bl\u00e1, jako kdyby se nic ned\u011blo, tak asi n\u011bco bude \u0161patn\u011b. Na vztahu mus\u00ed oba pracovat, a ne jenom jeden, to jsem se za ty roky nau\u010dila.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Slo\u017eit\u00e9 vztahy","item":"https:\/\/www.pados.cz\/slozite-vztahy\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]